Looking for whom to help | © Fola Daniel Adelesi
When we wake up on daily basis looking for who will help us, we sometimes to do not realize that we have the capacity to help others and when we go on like that for a long time we may even lose our capacity to help others and become so dependent on who will help us. Even when a man needs help and is not getting the needed help, he must never lose his own capacity to help others.
There are too many people out there who at least have something to give to others but because they are trying to get help, they act like people who do not have the capacity and begin to parade themselves as people who are out rightly helpless. They sometimes whip up sentiments and appear as victims of circumstances in order to get help from other people and these are some of the things that weaken the minds. Your mind now automatically conditions itself to get help but it does not understand that it can ever offer any help to others.
You should go about looking for someone you can help if you will ever improve or strengthen your mind. Look around you and identify what others need and how you can help them. There are so many problems in the society and there are so many people who really need help. I am not saying that you do not need help but there is someone who still needs more help than you do that you can also help. Stop presenting yourself as someone who is totally helpless.
I am sure your knowledge is still useful to someone who is struggling and all the person needs is information. I am sure your expertise is still useful to someone out there who does not even know what to do again in life. I am sure your experiences will be very useful in guiding someone through situations so that the person does not end up in the wrong direction. It is only when we look into ourselves and come up with the mind to help others that we can only get into the business of helping others.
It is important for us to help others because when we do we will empower our own minds and we even feel the sense of fulfillment and satisfaction. When we do it once we will want to do it again and when you do it again there will be the urge to do it another time. After a while you just get used to helping people and you never parade yourself as a victim who is not getting any help from anywhere.
You will always be stronger when you appear as a helper than when you appear as someone who desperately needs help. It also for your own good that you help others because, ‘what goes around comes around’ as many would say. Life is governed by laws and those laws cannot be broken. You may even have your needs met in the process of trying to help someone else. Sometimes it may not be in the process of trying to help someone but when you go about helping people, your own needs will be when. You cannot sow this kind of seed and not expect it to germinate! From today, make it a habit to offer a helping hand to others!
© Fola Daniel Adelesi
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