Shades of the process | © Fola Daniel Adelesi

There are
different things that will remind us or point to us that we are already in the
process which will lead to the things God is preparing us for. I call them the
shades of the process because they give us an inkling of the process. We all go
through processes in life and those processes come in different ways or give us
different shades.

For many people,
the shades of their processes will include the following:

  1. Discouragement
    – Elijah worked to a stage and did many exploits but still had issues in his
    life as well. He got a threat one time from the queen of the land and ran for
    his dear life. After a while he asked God to kill him. That’s how discouraged
    he was. In the middle of our processes in life, there will be reasons to be
    discouraged. Circumstances will want to pull us down. We will look around and
    it will look as if nothing is working. Many of us would have reasons to doubt
    the fact that we are on the right path. You need to understand that this
    discouragement is a shade of the process and you should never allow it to bring
    you down in life. Keep going until the end of the process.

  • Criticism –
    Criticism is also a shade of the process that you will go through in life. Some
    will criticize you for good reasons and some will do so for no reason. People will
    call you names and they will want you to stop the good things you are doing.
    One of the things you should bear in mind is that people will talk when you do
    good or you do bad. People will talk when you do something or do nothing. Since
    people will talk, regardless of what you do, you had better give them something
    to talk about. In Mark 3:1-6, Jesus was trying to heal a man with a withered
    hand but there were people waiting to criticize him for healing a man. One
    would have thought that should be celebrated but it wasn’t. They had issues
    with Jesus and nothing he did was right in their eyes. Some people will have
    issues with you and nothing you do will be right in their eyes. They will make
    every effort to water down all your achievements so you can’t focus on people
    like that.

  • Hatred – Hatred
    will stem from unnecessary criticism and you should expect that people will
    hate for no just cause. In John 18: 39-40, people were given the option to choose
    between Jesus and a famous thief but they decided they wanted the renowned thief
    to be freed instead of Jesus, the one who came to save them from their sins.
    Why did the people choose the thief instead of Jesus as the one who should
    regain freedom? It was simply hatred stemming from ignorance.

  • Unanswered
    prayers – Some unanswered prayers that you expect God to answer are actually
    shades of your process. You want God to answer some prayers but he chose not to
    answer them because he knows better than you could ever imagine. If you are a
    parent, you usually wouldn’t give everything to your children not because you
    don’t love them. You don’t give everything to them because you understand that
    some of the things they are asking for can actually kill them. In some other
    cases, they are just not mature enough to handle what they are asking for. In
    some other cases, what you have in mind is simply bigger than what your
    children are asking for. So when you pray and some things are not answered,
    just remember why your parents don’t grant some request or why you as a parent
    will not grant some request.

  • Seclusion –
    You should expect that there will be times when you will be secluded. People
    will leave you. You will look to the right and not see anyone and also look to
    the left with no one to help. You may also be in the middle of multitude and
    still be alone with some issues of life. There has to be some moments of
    seclusion to trash out some issues with your maker or get a grip on what’s
    going on in your life. All the famous Bible characters had their moments of
    seclusion. Jesus would rise early in the morning and go into the wilderness to
    pray. He went to the mount of transfiguration and many other secluded places.
    John was in the wilderness before Jesus came. David was on the filed tending
    sheep before the day of his anointing and still went to the cave after his
    anointing. Joseph was in slavery and still went to prison while a slave. Jonah
    went into the belly of the fish because he was trying to avoid Nineveh but
    ended up in the same place. Your seclusion may not be physical but some
    experience in your life will certainly represent that seclusion.

  • Inner yearnings
    for fulfilment  – For those who haven’t
    discovered purpose, one of the things that will happen is that you will have
    the inner yearning for purpose. No matter what you achieve in life, you will
    not be satisfied until you begin to do that thing that gives you real
    fulfilment. Interestingly, we were wired by God to only derive real fulfilment from
    the things that constitute our purposes in life. I have seen several people
    going after money and other things in life. After making all the money, they
    just don’t feel good, satisfied our comfortable until they begin another search
    for fulfilment. If you are in that search for fulfilment right now, despite the
    many things that are working for you, then you are on your way to a great

One of the shades
of processes you will go through in life must have mentioned above and others
could have been left out but these things mentioned above will remind you that
something significant is going on in your life. When next you go through a
season of discouragement, criticism, hatred, seclusion, unanswered prayers and
yearning for fulfilment, just ask God about the process he wants you to go through
so you can compete it successfully and come out with the right lessons.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *